OK... so since no one is willing to offer advice... I am gonna try it myself... so here is what I will try.. please let me know if it looks like I am going to get into trouble with this...
1. Make a post on my blog and I think i can mark it do not allow comments...
2. Go to the mysql data base and try to find what it put there meaning no comments allowed...
3. Search and replace that field with the new data that replaces allow comments to no comments...
4. Wish me luck or scream at me if I am totally on the wrong track..
Thanks..